Or, Let's Get A Few Things Straight
Published on March 23, 2005 By stutefish In Current Events
Let's get a few things straight.

There are doctors who make mistakes.

There are doctors who lie.

There are politicians that make mistakes.

There are politicians that lie.

There are husbands that care.

There are husbands that don't care.

There are, likewise, parents at both ends of the spectrum.

For every expert you bring out to support your position, they will bring out an expert to suppor their position.

For every reasonable argument you use to discredit their experts, they will use an equally reasonable argument to discredit your experts.

For every sensible interpretation you give to the facts as you know them, they will give an equally sensible but totally opposing interpretation to the facts as they know them.

The facts as you know them aren't all the facts. Some of them aren't even facts at all.

For every silly, childish, and totally irrelevant piece of namecalling, browbeating, or similar tomfoolery they use against you and your arguments, you have used similar against them. Thanks for wasting our time with that, by the way.

In summary, you need to acknowledge the possibility that YOU ARE COMPLETELY, TOTALLY, UTTERLY WRONG ABOUT THE SPECIFICS OF THE TERRY SCHIAVO CASE.

That said, here's my take on the principles involved:

Human life is always preferable over human death. The defense of the defenseless is a high and noble ideal, that we should always strive to live up to. General policies and specific acts that undermine this ideal should be rejected whenever possible.

Euthanasia is a difficult issue to reach any conclusions about, both as a matter of personal preference and public policy. But I do believe that when there is any doubt at all, we should always take great care to err on the side of life.

Okay, fine. So we shouldn't kill helpless people, or allow them to die, if we can at all help it. But what if someone insists on making the decision? I'm open to the idea that there are cases in which Euthanasia is a humane choice, that doesn't undermine human dignity and the culture of life, but uplifts and strengthens these things.

So who should make the decision?

Al things being equal, I favor the husband over the parents. After all, as my wife points out: that's what marriage is all about. Is he making a bad decision? Maybe. But as far as I'm concerned, it's his decision to make.

All things being equal, of course.

There's also the law to consider. We have judges for that. All things being equal, I favor the judgement of the courts over the judgement of the individual. That's what courts are for.

But the judges only interpret the law.

There's also the lawmakers. They're having their own debate, at their level, about this issue. We will probably spend a lot of time in the comments for this article, debating the priorities and motives of the various legislators. Right now, though, let's assume that they're all acting in good faith, to the best of their ability. I believe it is their duty to consider issues such as these, and to propose whatever laws they feel are most appropriate. After that, it's up to everybody else--judges, parents, husbands, you, me, everybody--to abide by those laws.

That said, a slow, starving death? That's not really a sign of someone who loves you and wants what's best for you.

Of course, since it'd be illegal to euthanize Terri properly, with a quick, painless injection, slow starvation is pretty much Michael's only method of honoring what he claims are his wife's wishes.

Still, Euthanasia is a craze that is sweeping the nation and the world. Would it really hurt things so much, to let her parents and other well-wishers care for her for a few more years, until the Euthanasia fad reaches Florida and Terri can finally die a peaceful, dignified death?

Comments
on Mar 23, 2005
If we really think about it, God should be the one to make the decision. If someone dies then it is meant to be that way. I think that they should let her live. God will decide when it is her time to go. It shouldn't be up to the judges. God knows what is best for our world. If only we would listen to him.
~carebear~
on Mar 23, 2005
My God tells me that I also know what is "best for our world", and that I should continually strive, as best I can to act according to what I know to be right and good. My God tolerates very little, and complacency, fatalism, and laziness in waiting for Him to sort out my problems are all on his list of intolerables.
on Mar 24, 2005
My problem is that this guy walked away from being a husband, and now just manages her like a piece of real estate. No one with another wife and two kids is really your husband. I don't fault him for "moving on", but he should have relinquished the guardianship to people who are willing to stick around with her.

As for "who should decide", the person themselves should, and we should make life the default. As it stands, many people are saying that they wouldn't want to be laying around S**ting themselves, etc., but we can't allow the state to make the default decision pulling the plug. Lord, consider the implications for organ harvesting.

In short, you either have a living will, or any reasonable means should be used to support you. To me, a feeding tube is reasonable means. If she were in this mental condition and if her heart and lungs and stomach, etc., didn't function, I could agree more with the husband.

In reality, she is as reasonably alive as an newborn. That isn't a state I would want to be in, but that is undoubtedly alive.
on Mar 24, 2005

Still, Euthanasia is a craze that is sweeping the nation and the world. Would it really hurt things so much, to let her parents and other well-wishers care for her for a few more years, until the Euthanasia fad reaches Florida and Terri can finally die a peaceful, dignified death?

This subject has been beated to death and I almost did not read your take on it due to that fact.  I am glad I did.  The above gets you an insightful as it is one of the best common sense answers I have seen on this issue yet.

I doubt too many will listen to common sense on this issue tho as the liberals seem to want to politicize a non political issue.

on Mar 24, 2005
I agree with BakerStreet. I wholeheartedly believe that Michael Schiavo is acting in bad fatih, and that his solution to the problem is the wrong solution. But I also believe that the institution of marriage which he and Terri entered into with each other, clearly establishes him as the final arbiter of his incapacitated wife's wishes, to the extent that the law allows.

Also, I believe that I could be wrong about what Terri actually wants, and what Michael's real motivations are. It sure looks like he's an uncaring bastard to me, but I've met people who have gotten the wrong idea about me before, too. Only professional celebrities look good in the media, and even they don't always pull it off.

In the end, I remain at my stated position: whether I agree with him or not, I believe that within the law it is Michael's privilege and duty to make this decision on behalf of his wife. And I believe, based on the opinion of two courts, that he is within the law.

on Mar 24, 2005
Thanks for the vote of confidence, Dr. Guy! I look forward to agreeing and disagreeing with you more often in the future

To be fair, it's not just the liberals who seem bent on politicizing this. My favorite conservatives have been debating the issue in political terms, and pressing for a political solution, for over a week now.

(Well, not all of them. One reason why these people are my favorite conservatives is because they constantly engage in lively debate and open disagreement about conservative policy. Some of them have spent the last week or so vehemently rejecting the politicization of the issue.)

on Mar 24, 2005
My God tells me that I also know what is "best for our world",


But how could you know what is best when you don't know every little thing there is to know about our world? Just curious.

And I also agree with Baker Street. Good point.

~carebear~
on Mar 24, 2005

To be fair, it's not just the liberals who seem bent on politicizing this. My favorite conservatives have been debating the issue in political terms, and pressing for a political solution, for over a week now.

This is true, and I should have stated that MANY are politicizing it.  You get a mea culpa from me for that.

on Mar 24, 2005
Good question, carebear. I should say, I have a conscience that tells me what is best for the things I do know about. This is usually limited to my own life. As for the rest of the world, I must trust God to sort all that out, but I must also apply the voice of my conscience as best I can to the details I do know of.

This article is an excellent example of what I mean. I don't know all the details, and I know I could be horribly mistaken, but I should still be aware of what my conscience has to say, and take it seriously.
on Apr 04, 2005
Terri`s brain was just mush. The tube just made her heart beat. She is far better off dead.
on Apr 04, 2005
Terri`s parent are just greedy. They wanted to see their daughter rot until the very end just for spite. Thank god Terri`s husbands wish was granted.